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"I need space!"
I've talked a lot in videos about this issue, like here...and here. Those videos talk about what to think about her request for space and how to know whether it's really a request for divorce.
This email is about the PRESSURE she feels and the distinction between the BAD pressure you must stop and the GOOD pressure you must start.
Even if you wind up divorced, you must understand the difference and become a master of applying GOOD pressure - everywhere in your life.
Let me explain this in really simple terms.
BAD Pressure = Desperate, sad, nervous and needy pursuit of affirmation.
When it comes to a woman declaring her need for space...you can't analyze it or change it. When she says "I'm not feeling romantic love for you anymore"...you can't argue about it or negotiate it. So, don't even try. That's BAD pressure.
Even though she may not know exactly what the hell she means by this, it's her emotional truth. She didn't make a choice to feel like this...she just DOES. Don't ask her why. She doesn't know why. She won't know why tomorrow or, possibly, ever. Asking her who/what/where/why/when/how questions in order to collect data and solve the problem for her is BAD pressure.
My new book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
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