If you are ready for a long-term relationship, follow THIS. Learn the 3 Steps to Getting The Right Man To Pursue You And Only You: If you find yourself jumping from one relationship to another, kind of like a frog jumping from one lily pad to another, except it seems like every lily pad you hop on, sinks like a rock. And it always seems like that perfect guy who you told all of your friends was the one, ended up ghosting you on the third date.
Today we're going to talk about how to attract a long-term relationship. Find love by searching for principles, rather than by chasing pheromones. Let me explain.
Principles are things that everyone has in life, and people will follow principles to make decisions in life. We all have principles based on our family life, what kind of family we want to have, how much time we want to spend with our family, do we want to have our own family? Or principles about religion, are we religious or not, and which religion that is. Or even things like politics, or things like our environment.
On the other hand, pheromones in the most literal sense, are just released to attract the opposite sex. But in the broader sense, for the sake of this video, I'm talking about pheromones as just chasing physical attraction. This is the thing that draws you to a person.
Have you ever met someone that you can't get away from, but you know it just terrible for you? But man, maybe it's just the hair, perhaps it's the smell, it's probably the cologne, probably for you ladies, the way he talks, whatever it is, there's something about him that you are drawn to. It's just addictive. Only chasing that feeling and only thinking about that feeling is merely chasing pheromones. So listen carefully.
You will continuously jump from relationship to relationship if you only chase pheromones. Who you are attracted to has very little correlation with your future happiness in that relationship, and worse off, as that relationship kind of develops, the intensity of that attraction, that initial attraction, it will diminish. And then all you're left with is just a big pile of nothing, aka, a sinking lily pad. And here's why you should focus your energy on understanding a man's principles.
Principles, whatever they are, tend to stay pretty consistent and steady throughout life. And when you find a long-term relationship, even better, they end up growing together. So if he's a family man now, likely, he'll always be a family man. If he's spiritual now, he may be going to be religious in the future. If he believes in helping other people and giving value to the world, chances are, he'll want to do that as well.
On the other hand, if he's selfish, who drinks too much and hates children, you know where this is going in 10 years. This is not good if you want children. So rather than chasing pheromones, I want you to start searching for principles. You can do this. It just requires a little bit of discipline moving forward.
If you'd like a little bit of help being able to attract the one and find a long-term relationship, join me at a free webinar, you can click the link in the description anywhere on this page, or in my profile: and I'm going to walk you through the three ways to get the right man to pursue you. And make sure you comment below this video saying, "I am ready for a healthy relationship."
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